Yes, there is a lot of lights but you can get away with it if they are set up in a tasteful way. My taste my not be yours or the next guys, but here's a few ideas...
I see a lot of guys with the honeycomb grill have the lights mounted behind the insert. I think that's a cool look. If you mounted the two on the push bar on top, could they straighten out?
08 XLT 4.0 V6
Awaiting 3" Body Lift + 33/12.50 MTs