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TB-9862 · #**196** 12-21-2012, 09:51 PM

Its not too soon to ask her to hang out.

If she talks a LOT, thats normal and its good. That shows she's interested in you (either as a friend or more, spending more time with her will reveal how far the interest goes)
Communication is the most important thing. If she didn't talk it would be nothing but awkward silence. Does she let you get in a word as well or is it mostly her talking and you listening?

Also, let her pick a place. Girls love getting their way lol
And if its somewhere she picks then she'll be in a better mood because she likes the setting.

Definitely be yourself. If you change something just to get her to like you, you'll have to keep being that other person. At first it might be worth it to have that girl noticing you but when you get tired of the act, she'll get tired of you. A girl that doesn't like you for you isn't a girl you wanna be with.

Just ask her to hang out, worst that can happen is she says she's busy

03DJ · #**197** 12-21-2012, 09:58 PM

Well all I have to say is to Just go for it. Ask her to hang out sometime soon, chances of her saying yes is high, so just relax. Don't stress yourself out, in the end you'll realize that you stressed yourself out for nothing and you'll be so happy that you're going to hang out with her.

Just be yourself. That is the best way for things to go.

4rdranger · #**198** 12-21-2012, 10:02 PM

Yes, she does let me talk. Just throwing this in here, I thought I talked a lot lol.

But yea, so when I get back from break just start talking to her and be like "you wanna hangout some time after school?" Or is their a better way to put it?

03DJ · #**199** 12-21-2012, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 4rdranger

Yes, she does let me talk. Just throwing this in here, I thought I talked a lot lol.

But yea, so when I get back from break just start talking to her and be like "you wanna hangout some time after school?" Or is their a better way to put it?

I think thats a perfectly fine to say. I don't really see any other way to say it.

TB-9862 · #**200** 12-21-2012, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by 4rdranger

Yes, she does let me talk. Just throwing this in here, I thought I talked a lot lol.

But yea, so when I get back from break just start talking to her and be like "you wanna hangout some time after school?" Or is their a better way to put it?

either that or replace "you wanna" with "we should" lol
just keep it casual

03DJ · #**201** 12-21-2012, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by TB-9862

either that or replace "you wanna" with "we should" lol
just keep it casual

Nahh...I think "you wanna" shouldn't be "we should"...trust me. Never worked for me, maybe for you it will. How about replace "you wanna" with "Lets".

4rdranger · #**202** 12-21-2012, 10:37 PM

Yeah, I better smarten up myself for this next encounter. If she is in a pack I will just do it anyway. OR I will catch her right as soon as the bell rings.

To bad I have to work for 9 hours tomorrow, its going to be a long day...