NO BS! What is your (daily) relationship with your significant other like?

HazardousRanger · #1 05-11-2011, 07:39 PM

Im very curious and i feel like i need to compare my relationship with others. i am hoping this will be a semi serious thread...

The title says it all....what is your day like from waking up to going to bed? pertaining to her/him...

if you dont live together, what is your day like? im even talking about good morning text messages and etc etc

i am not going to explain why ive started this thread and because of that, basically any comment goes.

last thing...the NO BS means no bullshit fairytale stories especially if they are not true.

a more specific explanation

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Originally Posted by ben10

guys he is looking for how you interact with her, do you stay in touch, are you always calling and being called? do you talk a lot still? or have the communication lines died?

(thanks man)
i am also talking in general daily stuff

ben10 · #2 05-11-2011, 07:42 PM

i wake up rub my significant other till it says hello back, then work go home and do it again which makes me sleepy so i pass out. sometimes i beat my significant other on the top tube of my bike and stuff, but i treat it well.

just trying to lighten the mood eric, i bet you will get some solid responses.

HazardousRanger · #3 05-11-2011, 07:43 PM

^^lmao thanks man that really helped! do u think my thread even makes sense? lol since u know whats goling on

ben10 · #4 05-11-2011, 07:45 PM

guys he is looking for how you interact with her, do you stay in touch, are you always calling and being called? do you talk a lot still? or have the communication lines died?

HazardousRanger · #5 05-11-2011, 07:45 PM

There ya go ^^

DiabloBlanco · #6 05-11-2011, 07:49 PM

I know what you mean

I was going out with this girl shelby for almost 2 years. Every morning Id text her good morning. And text her during the day almost alll day, and an occasional call. And then Id either go see her and hang out or just go home. Then Id call her at night and say goodnight and talk for an hour or so. then Id repeat. We would fight sometimes, but thats normal. It was usually over something stupid. And this went on for almost the whole time I was with her. It was nice but I felt like i was married at the age of 16 and 17. And I did not like that one bit. So things started going downhill for both of us and eventually we fell out of love. It happens.

And yes. the white devil is capable of love.

dixie_boysles · #7 05-11-2011, 07:53 PM

Ki.da weird thread, but ill play along. I've been with mine for seven years so we really do have a routine. She is the first oerson I talk to when I wake up and the last person I talk to before I go to bed (just got off phone with her as a matter of fact). Basically M-F, I call her at 6:45 am EST on my way to work. This is regadless if she is on her way to work or her dayy off in bed. Then if she is at work I won't hear from her until 12-1 on her lunch. I may vet the occasional txt from her if she is not super busy. Then I work until 4, call her work on my way hime, speak to her fir a few minutes, go home, wait for her to get off 7:30-8. She gets to my house at about 8:30, she sees me until 9:30 until she goew home. Then she calls whe. She's rady for bed. Sleep, repeat.

Now on days she is off, basically same routine in morning, but she will call or text when she wakes up (after I already called at 6:45). Then I talk to her again on my daily break at work at 10:30. Then I call her on lunch or we meet and eat lunch together. If we eat seperate I call her before and after lunch, then I talk to her on my 2:45 break for 15 minutes, then call her when I get off at 4 (in which she is already on way to my house). We spend evening together doing whatever (eachother, tv, going to town, etc...lol) then she leaves about ten. Bed, repeat.

So as you can see, pretty routine haha. Its my life though and I love it.

Its all about to change though, closing on house this week, she moves in in august.

Now jus because we look routine, doesn't mean we don't have fun, we do have friends and we go out about every weekend, we go clubbin, to chilies to get margauritas, bowling, etc...

ObsoleteE · #8 05-11-2011, 07:54 PM

My fiance and I have known each other for about 10 years. I am best friends with her bro, and her mom called me son long before we dated. We have been together almost 3 years now, and have lived together for about 2 years. We rarely fight, and are a great match. We barely call or text during the day unless it's important. We don't post on each other's walls on FB, because we are usually in the same room. We both love our alone time when we are able to get some. I would call it the perfect relationship.

WyldeChild · #9 05-11-2011, 07:56 PM

Last committed relationship I had was back in college, few years ago. Dated the girl for a year and a half.

We didn't live together, but we might as well have. We'd stay the night together every night....usually over her place because she had the bigger bed. During the day we would see each other as much as we could...between classes, the gym, work and so forth.

I don't think you could see too much of the person you're with. If you like/love them, then they are a huge part of your life, and you should want to see them as much as you can. Its good to get out and chill with your buddies sometimes, but overall you will probably spend most of your time with your girl.

HazardousRanger · #10 05-11-2011, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by ObsoleteE

My fiance and I have known each other for about 10 years. I am best friends with her bro, and her mom called me son long before we dated. We have been together almost 3 years now, and have lived together for about 2 years. We rarely fight, and are a great match. We barely call or text during the day unless it's important. We don't post on each other's walls on FB, because we are usually in the same room. We both love our alone time when we are able to get some. I would call it the perfect relationship.

do you live with her?

trying to be a GOOD friend to her bro makes things a lil awkward when were all together esp when i feel like im just there for no reason since i feel left out

flaresidexlt · #11 05-11-2011, 07:56 PM

text every morning, we work together so see her there, or at college same college, or call and text each other all day we love talking so were always some how communicating either text calls or notes and at night if i dont see her we text and skype and i know this might sound odd but we like move in towarss the web cams and kiss goodnight over skype. might sound odd but her parents dont know were going out and shes not allowed to see me....long story her family is super religious and well im not. but were very strong and we've been going out for 6 yrs now so ive seen alot and any time i could help another relationship out just ask

HazardousRanger · #12 05-11-2011, 07:58 PM

haha scott i didnt mean every scheduled minute but thanks that definitely makes sense!

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Originally Posted by WyldeChild

I don't think you could see too much of the person you're with. If you like/love them, then they are a huge part of your life, and you should want to see them as much as you can. Its good to get out and chill with your buddies sometimes, but overall you will probably spend most of your time with your girl.

firm believer of that

dixie_boysles · #13 05-11-2011, 07:58 PM

So yes I do keep n toucn and am not a happy camper if I cannot reach her when I wanna talk to her and she feels the same way back. We enjoy talking to each other and I look forward to it every day. Also if we are arguing, we never try to go to bed mad. You never know what could happen and if somethng bad were to happen you don't want the last remembrance to be an argument....

Now don't get me wrong, there are days where I get tired if the routine, but iv been one month without it (we broke up) and I tell u my life sucked BAD. We learned a lot from that one month apart and apprefiate each other more and more.

flaresidexlt · #14 05-11-2011, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by dixie_boysles

Ki.da weird thread, but ill play along. I've been with mine for seven years so we really do have a routine. She is the first oerson I talk to when I wake up and the last person I talk to before I go to bed (just got off phone with her as a matter of fact). Basically M-F, I call her at 6:45 am EST on my way to work. This is regadless if she is on her way to work or her dayy off in bed. Then if she is at work I won't hear from her until 12-1 on her lunch. I may vet the occasional txt from her if she is not super busy. Then I work until 4, call her work on my way hime, speak to her fir a few minutes, go home, wait for her to get off 7:30-8. She gets to my house at about 8:30, she sees me until 9:30 until she goew home. Then she calls whe. She's rady for bed. Sleep, repeat.

Now on days she is off, basically same routine in morning, but she will call or text when she wakes up (after I already called at 6:45). Then I talk to her again on my daily break at work at 10:30. Then I call her on lunch or we meet and eat lunch together. If we eat seperate I call her before and after lunch, then I talk to her on my 2:45 break for 15 minutes, then call her when I get off at 4 (in which she is already on way to my house). We spend evening together doing whatever (eachother, tv, going to town, etc...lol) then she leaves about ten. Bed, repeat.

So as you can see, pretty routine haha. Its my life though and I love it.

Its all about to change though, closing on house this week, she moves in in august.

Now jus because we look routine, doesn't mean we don't have fun, we do have friends and we go out about every weekend, we go clubbin, to chilies to get margauritas, bowling, etc...

congrats on the house

HazardousRanger · #15 05-11-2011, 07:59 PM

kevin: i used to do that skype thing lol i love webcams they are very useful if u know what i mean