I hate to say it it is just one of those things that'll shake you from time to time. Shrinks don't have much to offer in the way of the flashbacks, they'll just happen. After doing what I did for so long the best I came up with was understanding that it happend the best way it could. You know like, have you ever prayed why, why did this have to happen? Couldn't it have been something less. Then one day out of nowhere it came to me that maybe infact this was the lesser of two evils and my prayers were answered before I even spoke them. My being alive today is sheer luck/blessing/Allah's will whatever you would call it. I have seen things I will not disturb you with. So if it helps just think of it as she would have suffered greatly and been mortally handicapped, but through the Grace of God she was sparred the experience. The only ones who give a crap about being alive are those who are alive. Many a friend of mine lay peacefully as the rest of us lived the grunt of the situations. She never knew what hit her. Her mind made it to about oh crap and then blanked. In traumatic situations it is much different then many know it. You fall into a bit of a drugged state, things don't function as they normally would and your mental state becomes highly retarded. Some have come close to this trying to dial 911 after an intense auto accident, it does not work(your mind). So in closing she is in a better place and doesn't even know what happened. I hope her brother is okay and you will be fine it'll just take some time and reckogning by you.
God Bless you for being there for her.
HTH, E6 US Army Rangers Spec Ops.
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