The Offical Vent Thread. - Page 74

WearyTraveler · #**1096** 02-11-2011, 06:18 AM

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Originally Posted by hazardousranger

we have a stats class together (and bio)

1st mistake! I don't know about how you and your girlfriend are with school, but I could never have taken a class with my wife. Well the classes she took in college probably would have fried my brain, but we each have a different learning style too. I took one class with her and I drove her nuts and it was only a weekend class.

I hope you and your girlfriend can work it out. Relationships are hard but easy if you can work out your problems. Help her make a nice meal and then sit down and talk. Tell her everything you told us, how you want to be the man she wants you to be and that you need help getting there.

Good luck.

HazardousRanger · #**1097** 02-11-2011, 07:39 AM

thanks weary...the stats class is only 8 weeks long but it is so stressful it drivesboth of us nuts since we REALLY need to pass so we gradurate at the same time

Fordzilla80 · #**1098** 02-11-2011, 10:40 AM

I had a class with my current gf a few years ago, when we were first dating. That's actually where we met. It was an ag class. Anyways, after we broke up, things were so awkward in there. Luckily the year was almost over. I'm glad I go to a different school than her now, because that awkwardness is just horrible, and should we break up again, I really wouldn't wanna go through that.

HazardousRanger · #**1099** 02-11-2011, 10:46 AM

yeah i still have 14 weeks left in the bio class and to make matters worse her brother is in the same class too.....

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and im having lunch with her later today for like an hour or 30 mins idk so prolly talk a littlle then...and i have to help her with her stats tonight since im doing mine right now with a tutor walking around and she is ar work...im gonna be sure to be hella nice no matter what!!

southbama man · #**1100** 02-11-2011, 10:47 AM

^ I had the exact problem too with my gf. She is still around lol, but we had 2 classes together when we broke up for a short time. Dating and having 2 classes worked out great. I'd sleep, she would do the work, and I'd get good grades. Then when we broke up for a short time and it was awkward.

HazardousRanger · #**1101** 02-11-2011, 10:59 AM

haha sounds like uve got it made, i love going to school w her cuz we carpool and i get a different breakfast every morning!!!

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is there anyone here that fights about the stereo??? i HATE COUNTRY and she insists on listening to her stations while im driving my truck....its gotten better lately but STILL!

WearyTraveler · #**1102** 02-11-2011, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by hazardousranger

is there anyone here that fights about the stereo??? i HATE COUNTRY and she insists on listening to her stations while im driving my truck....its gotten better lately but STILL!

It doesn't get better. I hate country music and my wife loves it. So I drive and she switches stations. She is mostly understanding and lets me listen to my music and we switch back and forth

The only way to solve the is to make her ride in the box or if you have an extended cab, to ride in the back seat!! You would probably end up single pretty quick.

HazardousRanger · #**1103** 02-11-2011, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by WearyTraveler

It doesn't get better. I hate country music and my wife loves it. So I drive and she switches stations. She is mostly understanding and lets me listen to my music and we switch back and forth

The only way to solve the is to make her ride in the box or if you have an extended cab, to ride in the back seat!! You would probably end up single pretty quick.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! thanks for that man, really helped haha i know that the ladies have to have their way and i drive 50 mins by myself everyday so i at least get that time to listen to my heavy metal (and others haha)

99rangerguy · #**1104** 02-11-2011, 11:24 AM

Today I was told to bring my Truck to have my Body Lift, and Tires installed. So, I drove an hour away to do it. Then the guy was like "Sorry, but your going to have to come back early next week." Wtf. Never going back there.

HazardousRanger · #**1105** 02-11-2011, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by 99rangerguy

Today I was told to bring my Truck to have my Body Lift, and Tires installed. So, I drove an hour away to do it. Then the guy was like "Sorry, but your going to have to come back early next week." Wtf. Never going back there.

DIY man!!!

if i knew how id help haha

southbama man · #**1106** 02-11-2011, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by hazardousranger

is there anyone here that fights about the stereo??? i HATE COUNTRY and she insists on listening to her stations while im driving my truck....its gotten better lately but STILL!

God yes. I hate country unless it is older country and my gf likes it. So I know what you mean. Then she also trys to make me listen to her shit while I drive my truck. I told her you don't touch a white mans radio.

HazardousRanger · #**1107** 02-11-2011, 11:39 AM

haha if i told her that she would get out of the truck, not even funny!

Fordzilla80 · #**1108** 02-11-2011, 02:33 PM

My gf doesn't like anything else other than country, and so do I.

HazardousRanger · #**1109** 02-11-2011, 02:42 PM

UPDATE: she basically said today that were giving ourselves a three week trial since we have come out with things we want to see in our relationship...we plan to very much still be friends and all that (thatll be hard but still have class and stuff) we both agreed that we will probably make it through but i cant protest at the end of the three weeks cuz we can safely say we tried....

somehow it got to the topic of maybe going back out again if we DID break up...and i said that yeah ofc id take u back but wed have to start over with dating before being official...lets hope it never comes to that

she said she still doesnt know what it is that she is missing but we both think that this willl help....
and one last thing she also mentioned that i am not her priority like work and her career are for now since she is establishing herself and anything that gets in the way or stresses her too much that it gets in the way..gets tossed no 2nd thoughts hence why she mentioned geting back together

comments or opinions?

Demon-FX4 · #**1110** 02-11-2011, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by hazardousranger

this is my vent! im being dragged along because my gf (whom i love dearly!) cant figure out why she is not as happy as she thinks she could be

we fight all the time and its hard cuz im hard of hearing and shes hearing and we dont sign as much cuz its just easier to talk but she is losing her patience with me...i dont know what ill do w.o her

she gets mad so easily and i get real defensive and ofc that makes her mad...i dont know how to "fix myself" i want to be the man she wants me to be.....but im not and id hate to see a relationship that im really happy in...end! i want her to be happy too and if im not in it....i want to know! fuck..i love her and we probably wont last the week cuz she is at the end of her wits and in someways i am too.....

thanks guys for listening

ok bro first. u can't change urself my now recent ex tried to change me over the corse of maybe 2 years and all i did was turn into more of a ******* than i was before.

two i found that u can be less defensive about things. explain y u feel that way before u just go crazy on her thats not good.

three if u don't already listen two her and what she is feeling and needs maybe she is feeling unwanted all of a sudden and she just needs to be cuddled or payed more attintion to more bro.

this could just be as easy and a simple fix it doesn't need to end.