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Old 01-14-2011, 09:07 AM
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Yeah, its not bama its the company I work for. I mean nobody else has these hours and I work my ass off! It is not me being a bad employee! I mean wtf! I have things to pay for! I can't take this home! I mean I just graduated off a thing called early exit. Which means I had all my credits by Christmas break, so I don't have to go back and I am technically no longer enrolled. I just need something that keeps money in my pocket and keeps me out of the house!
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Old 01-16-2011, 03:51 AM
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Long Rambling Relationship Rant

So tonight my girlfriend asks me if I want to be just friends when I deploy because she scared the relationship wont work and that it would be a burden. I said that was alright and if thats what she wants then its cool. She got irritated cause I didnt really show any emotion. Well I told her that it was like a slap in the face. Long story long I BUSTED my ass on this relationship. Going out with her friends doing what she wants w.e. I put up with it. Then she started being a straight bitch for some reason. Some of the comments were that "You need to get a degree in something so I can have intelligent convos with you", she goes to college. To me that was insulting. I felt she was basicly calling me a retard or unintelligent. It was insult after insult burn after burn. I talked to her about her being a bitch and she said she understood but in continued. As of Christmas she got a bad stomach virus were she was sick to her stomach and vomiting. One of the nights she got pissed about how I didnt come on to her. I was like holy fuck your sick! What do you want me to do? Then after all of that she got stressed and wasent in the mood. Now shes sick again and stressed cause of school. She also brings up an ex, they thought they were going to get married, and I said "Look Im sick of hearing about your ex. STFU" She got pissed and said that they were bestfriends and what not. Well I told her she would be pissed if I talked about my best friend that I fucked. Granted she found some nakedish pics on my phone and I will admit thats my bad. She also makes a big stink when I bring up my ex's names. Well since shes been really busy and stressed and Im on graves she feels like shes been a bad GF and what not (when I confronted her on being a bitch she agreed,felt horrible and said she didnt know what was wrong). IMO if she wants to be just friends then lets just get it done now instead of right before I leave of while Im gone. She agrees on this but my veiw is Im not going to be friends with an ex, In all honesty when the relationship ends I want nothing to do with them. Maybe immature but not happening. She dosent like this one bit and quickly said well I dont want that to happen. I told her that im not going to be in a deployed relationship with someone who isnt 100% in the relationship before I leave. Did I mention that she knew at the begining of the relationship (that she was bitching about cause she wanted to be "exclusive") that I was leaving and she was cool with it, she also wanted me to say I Love You which I did and do. She dosent say it unless Im pissed at her or upset with her. I told her that in my mind the relationships done unless she can convice me otherwise tomorrow.

Granted I may have over reacted about the situation but Im for once looking out for me in the relationship. I had planned on staying the night and she wanted me to but I said fuck it and left at like 230am. Kinda immature but I was pissed. So needless to say I think Im single.

I know go get some strange and be happy... All in good time.

EDIT: This last week shes been SOOO busy that she had the time to go out to a bar and do some other shit but couldnt spend time with me. She also wanted me to come over thursday but didnt say anything. Sorry my super powers werent working that day. SO done with Cali girls
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Old 01-16-2011, 04:17 AM
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^^^^ THAT my friend is Borderline Personality Disorder at its best. ^^^^

Degrading and demeaning you. Then once you're feeling down and she knows it, she reels you back in a little, then back to the insults. I've been through that. RUN while you can and consider yourself lucky.



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Old 01-16-2011, 05:40 AM
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Im in a somewhat similar situation at the moment.
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Old 01-16-2011, 07:38 AM
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Bit of advice from a girl, and it might sound kinda harsh but...
Chances are she's acting this way because she wants to break up but doesn't want to be the one who does it, and wants to keep you around as a backup boyfriend. Or she's just insecure and wants to feel needed/wanted. Either way, I'd get out of there and find a girl who knows what she wants and doesn't like to play games.
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Old 01-16-2011, 08:31 AM
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Im sorry your going through that man, same stuff happened to me a few years back, eventually you just gotta cut your loses and move on, if she is like this now its pretty safe to say you don't want her around when shit gets tough later...
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Old 01-16-2011, 10:50 AM
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I'm more or less just having problems with my seacow of an ex starting shit with my friends and my new girl to get back at me.
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Old 01-16-2011, 11:09 AM
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Bit of advice from a girl, and it might sound kinda harsh but...
Chances are she's acting this way because she wants to break up but doesn't want to be the one who does it, and wants to keep you around as a backup boyfriend. Or she's just insecure and wants to feel needed/wanted. Either way, I'd get out of there and find a girl who knows what she wants and doesn't like to play games.
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Im sorry your going through that man, same stuff happened to me a few years back, eventually you just gotta cut your loses and move on, if she is like this now its pretty safe to say you don't want her around when shit gets tough later...
Yea like I said IMO were done.

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I'm more or less just having problems with my seacow of an ex starting shit with my friends and my new girl to get back at me.
Haha seacow.

Honestly Im glad yall see whats up and that Im not going overboard. Time to buy parts to make me feel better!
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Old 01-16-2011, 11:30 AM
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Ok, I'll give this a shot...


My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times as of late. We've both been pretty much miserable due to the lack of money and having to live with my parents (not by choice) She's an LPN but she's only part time and can't get hours. I on the other hand have a "full-time" job and only make $10.71/Hour. So we've both been looking for new/another jobs. I'm pretty much hired at Lowe's Distribution center pending my drug test (hah!) She has a really hard time finding work around here due to the fact that there's a lot of RN's in this area and why would a hospital/nursing home/care center hire a LPN when they can hire a RN for only like $2 more an hour. She's been saying about how we've just been feeding off of each other being miserable and it's just making the situation worse. She's been staying with her grandmother not only because of our situation but because of her grandmother needing help (cleaning, wash etc.) Which I'm 100% fine with her staying down there but now she's saying about possibly moving down to Hershey with her cousin to work at the Hershey hospital. Which kinda has me pissed because I already moved to Oklahoma for her and then we ended up moving back. She doesn't even have the application for the job at the hospital yet.

About 2 weeks ago, I went into her purse to get Excedrin and I found a pre-paid cell phone. Now granted she has been talking about getting one for about a month now due to our cell bill being about $120/Month. I asked her about it and she said that it was her cousin's phone and she forgot it at her gram's, to which I replied well why then does it have a text in it from her cousin asking how she likes the new phone. So I caught her in a lie there. I also found 2 calls in there from an odd number with like a 205 area code. So I asked her about that and she said that it's a guy she went to high school with from Kentucky. (He moved from PA to Kentucky) And I said that that was ok if she talked to him no big deal. She said that they haven't talked for about 6 years, they used to email back and forth but nothing more than that. But the next day was the day she had to think about stuff and she was going to stay with her Gram for a little bit. Now granted I do trust her, but shit is just starting to add up ya know?

I guess I should've mentioned that we have been dating since March of 2003, which is almost 8 years now. I think we've been through too much to just give up and walk away now. I just don't think she realizes how much I've sacrificed to be with her. We have 3 dogs together. And I'd rather not have to split them up.

I keep telling her that it's going to get better because I have a new job lined up and I won't be worried about money like I used to be. But she keeps saying that I can't guarantee that it's going to be better. Which is obvious, i can't guarantee it but I just know it's going to get better. We keep saying that we need to sit down and talk about this but she keeps putting it off, I tried to talk to her about it last night after we watched a movie but she just started to cry and said she needed more time. I don't see how things are going to be better if we split up. I mean, We help each other out money wise now, imagine how bad it's going to be for us if we break up? I mean wtf, she's on my insurance, so she's going to have to get her own car insurance and her's is already $110/Month for a '05 Civic so it's going to go up if she gets her own policy. I'm the co-signer for the loan on her car and I'm afraid if we break up, she's not going to be able to pay the loan and I'm going to have to cover for it. I'm also a co-signer on one of her student loans as well.

She said she's going to move in with her cousin, to which she lives with her mom and her mom's boyfriend. And just the other week, her cousin supposedly got kicked out but is living there again... so what happens if she gets kicked out again?

So in conclusion, I don't think she has someone else in mind, but I just don't know why all of a sudden that this shit is happening.

Any thoughts, gentlemen or ladies?


P.S. I think that's my longest post ever

I just needed to talk about it I guess

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Old 01-16-2011, 11:59 AM
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Any thoughts, gentlemen or ladies?


P.S. I think that's my longest post ever

I just needed to talk about it I guess
Yea the one above was my longests. IMO since it has been an 8 year relationship and the fact that your in pretty deep money wise, Id ride the wave a little more and see what happens. Then again I rode a btich wave for a while and that turned out horrible.
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Old 01-16-2011, 12:38 PM
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Turds post is a classic example of why you NEVER mix finances with a girl, until you're both very old and gray, or you've been together for at least 20 years. Statistics prove that it fails time and time again. If she doesn't have her sh*t together all by herself, or can't rely on herself to get the things she needs, then she'll always be a drain on you, and it WILL NOT end well.


Anyone here ever listen to Dave Ramsey and his statistics on marriage and finances?



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Old 01-16-2011, 12:42 PM
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Yea the one above was my longests. IMO since it has been an 8 year relationship and the fact that your in pretty deep money wise, Id ride the wave a little more and see what happens. Then again I rode a btich wave for a while and that turned out horrible.
We're not necessarily "In deep" money wise, it's just getting kinda tight
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Old 01-16-2011, 12:54 PM
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Turds post is a classic example of why you NEVER mix finances with a girl, until you're both very old and gray, or you've been together for at least 20 years. Statistics prove that it fails time and time again. If she doesn't have her sh*t together all by herself, or can't rely on herself to get the things she needs, then she'll always be a drain on you, and it WILL NOT end well.


Anyone here ever listen to Dave Ramsey and his statistics on marriage and finances?



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We're not necessarily "In deep" money wise, it's just getting kinda tight
No no not debt wise but your liable for things that benifited her money wise if that makes sense. Like the car and student loans. The thing that pisses me off is that you can make a girl center of your world its just not a big deal to them or they will abuse it or go crazy for whatever reason. I dont know your GF or you but thats what I would take away from the situation and its what Im taking away from mine.
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Old 01-16-2011, 01:14 PM
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Holy cow, it's likely lonely hearts in here.

lol, j/k. I'm sorry to hear all that's happenin to y'all. It's hard to find decent girls these days.
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Old 01-16-2011, 01:21 PM
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Holy cow, it's likely lonely hearts in here.

lol, j/k. I'm sorry to hear all that's happenin to y'all. It's hard to find decent girls these days.
Haha MY bad. I started it... It is hard finding bomb ass chicks. Im just tired of getting shitted on
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