2nd Date? Need to ask my fellow forum friends ^_^

[xNJxRanger]

Originally Posted by DrIftKi7Vg

Okay well since, I wrote so much for an update I don't think it went through.. Anyways, last night was spectacular! I picked her up and before leaving, did an interview with her dad and boy did I score there! He really liked me and what I do for a living and said that he would be more than happy for me to date his daughter. That put a smile on me. After that I gave her the roses and she loved them. Someone on here said that they were overrated and I was skeptic at first since it's truly an old thing to do but I did it anyways and she loved them. Apparently she loves flowers so another point. Went to dinner and let her order anything on the menu because at that time, money is not a problem and I didn't want to look cheap (which sometimes I am). Hey gotta save a buck or two now a days right. Had a nice little conversation and enjoyed ourselves throughout the dinner. We couldn't go to the movies because she had a lot going on at her house that she needed to do (cleaning for Thanksgiving). So I decided to lend a hand and help her out at her house. Well instead of cleaning, we laid in her bed and played a dirty truth or dare game and boy was it dirty haha. Then of course we "cuddled" and after that mingled around with her family and try to get them to like me which they did so another point there. Then she walked me to my truck (which she effing ADORES) and once I was about to say my goodbyes, she grabbed me by my sweater and pulled me towards her for a nice long kiss (blush). Then we hugged and I was off. As soon as I got home she left me a voice mail saying that I did great with the date and with her family. Everyone loves me and that I was a good kisser lol. But now I need to come up with something to do with the third date . Thank you all so much for the advice and help on this matter I couldn't have done it without yall so that I thank you. Now, I need to schedule a third date lmao!

i think she was more nervous, just my opinion, then she got to kno you and such, but family acceptance is huge for a girl. good job bro. just dont get caught playing truth or dare lol third date is bowling FTW. either that or since she saw your house, maybe ask your mom how to cook a certain dish that you think this girl will like and cook her dinner. she will be mad impressed. it has never failed for me. but your next step to this whole thing is having her friends like you so if you cook dinner, trust me they will hear about it! if the cooking thing isnt you then dont do it just an opinion!

[richarddhoward]

Well best advice I can give is the same as these boys. Take a rose for her, be right on time, she'll be late anyway, call her beautiful (not hot, there is a difference), don't stare at her boobs to hard, and make sure you make her laugh.

As for something to talk about, you're as lost as the rest of us. Keep it light and funny. Hell ask about family if you have too. Tell an embarassing story about yourself (that one works for me, but I have very little...ok no shame and she will probably hear it later from my buddies, or see the pictures).

Here is something also: I noticed with my last relationship that it seemed we were ALWAYS talking so we had nothing to talk about when we were together, leave something to mystery, don't text back right away, don't always answer the call, unless you already told her you were going to, and don't tell her everything.

[DrIftKi7Vg]

Sorry to disappoint you guys but it's over.... She text me when I was getting off work and she said she does not want a relationship right now. She likes me but.... I tried everything in my power to change her mind but she can't. So I guess I'm riding solo again and you know what FUCK it! I am going to wait until either she is ready because I'm not giving up on this girl (one more time around) and in the meantime I will approve my appearance, personality, looks, etc. and really hit it hard next time. I got so mad I drove a 80 in 50 and a 60 in a 30. I'm tired of doing this really; going on dates and then the relationship and afterwords either break up or get cheated. I mean what the hell am I'm doing wrong?! I don't know but I'm just going to try and relax and forget about it? What I need is some fucking cheering up. Who wants to go to the fucking strip club?

[darangerdanger]

god is great beer is good and GIRLS are crazy. sucks man. hopefully she'll come around

[DrIftKi7Vg]

Yeah keyword "hopefully". Beer is also good once parents buy (me=19=fuck). And yeah god is great, he'll help me out through this...

[richarddhoward]

Originally Posted by DrIftKi7Vg

Sorry to disappoint you guys but it's over.... She text me when I was getting off work and she said she does not want a relationship right now. She likes me but.... I tried everything in my power to change her mind but she can't. So I guess I'm riding solo again and you know what FUCK it! I am going to wait until either she is ready because I'm not giving up on this girl (one more time around) and in the meantime I will approve my appearance, personality, looks, etc. and really hit it hard next time. I got so mad I drove a 80 in 50 and a 60 in a 30. I'm tired of doing this really; going on dates and then the relationship and afterwords either break up or get cheated. I mean what the hell am I'm doing wrong?! I don't know but I'm just going to try and relax and forget about it? What I need is some fucking cheering up. Who wants to go to the fucking strip club?

Ten things guys know about women...1. They have boobs 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Oh and Vaginas


That sucks man, I got in the same boat with a girl back home I really liked. The other deal is that I was only home in Washington for a month and a half, then I was heading here to Tennessee. So I kinda got the shaft anyway.

Words of Wisdom, don't do anything that isn't you. I don't care how bad you want this woman, if you had wanted to look different then you are now, you'd have done it already. Just be you, there will be no better person in the world for you except that girl that likes you EXACTLY the way you are, that doesn't mean they like everything, but they can look past what they think sucks. I still love my ex to death, but she hated my drinking, chewing, swaring, and mischievious ways, she wasn't for me as much as I wanted to think it.

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Originally Posted by DrIftKi7Vg

Yeah keyword "hopefully". Beer is also good once parents buy (me=19=fuck). And yeah god is great, he'll help me out through this...

I do not condone underage drinking...but if I leave this beer right here and it happens to disappear...I won't ask questions, just kick chihuahuas

[darangerdanger]

yeah don't worry man. don't push it ya know? keep in touch with her and hang out still! some of the girls i only went on a date or two with ended up being some of my better friends

[smakes]

Piihb!

[MooDib]

Originally Posted by darangerdanger

god is great beer is good and GIRLS are crazy. sucks man. hopefully she'll come around

Yeah, exactly right.

I wouldn't worry too much about this, it happens to just about everyone. I know it doesn't really help you now to hear that but it will help you when you cool down in time. I've had my fair share of crazies and bad break ups but in the end I met my wife and it all worked out for the best.

And btw, even my wife is a bit crazy sometimes. You can never fully escape it. The perfect girl is never perfect.

[DrIftKi7Vg]

Originally Posted by darangerdanger

yeah don't worry man. don't push it ya know? keep in touch with her and hang out still! some of the girls i only went on a date or two with ended up being some of my better friends

Yeah but than again, I don't want to be friends and all because then she wouldn't like to go out and date once that day comes. I'll probably hang out you know every now and then but nothing big like everyday or something.

Originally Posted by richarddhoward

Ten things guys know about women...1. They have boobs 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Oh and Vaginas


That sucks man, I got in the same boat with a girl back home I really liked. The other deal is that I was only home in Washington for a month and a half, then I was heading here to Tennessee. So I kinda got the shaft anyway.

Words of Wisdom, don't do anything that isn't you. I don't care how bad you want this woman, if you had wanted to look different then you are now, you'd have done it already. Just be you, there will be no better person in the world for you except that girl that likes you EXACTLY the way you are, that doesn't mean they like everything, but they can look past what they think sucks. I still love my ex to death, but she hated my drinking, chewing, swaring, and mischievious ways, she wasn't for me as much as I wanted to think it.

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Yeah I was myself trust me. The family loved me for the two times they saw me and she likes me too. She just doesn't want to get into a relationship right now but that doesn't mean she won't later on in the near future. I'll be ready to sweep her up. I'm just tired of being solo day after day after day I mean damn it really does suck but that's life. One of these days it will happen. But sometimes I'm not a patient guy and I want it now!


I do not condone underage drinking...but if I leave this beer right here and it happens to disappear...I won't ask questions, just kick chihuahuas

LOL. Yeah I'm not a heavy drinker nor do I get drunk. Hell for my age, I drink like an adult; but this is only on special occasions or Holidays ex. Thanksgiving . But sometimes it will also help to take the pain away so excuse me while we go get some beer .

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Originally Posted by smakes

Piihb!

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Originally Posted by MooDib

Yeah, exactly right.

I wouldn't worry too much about this, it happens to just about everyone. I know it doesn't really help you now to hear that but it will help you when you cool down in time. I've had my fair share of crazies and bad break ups but in the end I met my wife and it all worked out for the best.

And btw, even my wife is a bit crazy sometimes. You can never fully escape it. The perfect girl is never perfect.

Thanks for that man! I played Black ops and went 40 and up in kills in every game match (I was pissed) and now I'm just trying to cool off. Maybe a little bit of punching will do

[BCobe]

Heard a quote once-If it has tits or tires its going to give you problems.... Ive noticed that wining and dining a girl usally ends in shitty results.. but the girls I dont care about and get alot of my *******-ish ways tend to stick like glue. Then again Im only 20 and the girls that are attracted to me are whores...

Oh and piihb= put it in her but

[MooDib]

Originally Posted by BCobe

the girls I dont care about and get alot of my *******-ish ways tend to stick like glue.

That sounds like my wife's brother. I once saw him trip his girlfriend in the airport and almost make her fall on her face with all her luggage while he laughed hysterically. For some reason she stuck around with him until he asked "What would you do if I asked you to marry me?". When she said "I would say yes" he dumped her, lol.

[delta6]

Originally Posted by mransr

don't stare at her boobs...




but ya, be yourself but don't spend all night talking about yourself...the movie, food and music are good safe topics

LMFAO x2

[Tom]

Originally Posted by BCobe

Heard a quote once-If it has tits or tires its going to give you problems.... Ive noticed that wining and dining a girl usally ends in shitty results.. but the girls I dont care about and get alot of my *******-ish ways tend to stick like glue. Then again Im only 20 and the girls that are attracted to me are whores...

Exactly.

Honestly you're probably too nice. She doesn't necessarily want to be single but she probably realizes that she can call you to her service whenever she wants so she is going to blow you off until (if ever) that time comes.

There's a reason they say nice guys finish last. IMHO, live your life and allow her the opportunity to join you on your adventures. Younger girls tend to not want a guy who will drop everything in an instance to answer their call. Show her you have a life and she's not you're #1 priority and she may become interested.

You complain about how all of your past GFs have cheated on you, honestly, I think the same applies here. You're likely too easy for them, they get bored knowing you will do what they say when they say, so they look for the challenge... aka the "*******" who tells them no.

Girls always say they like confidence. Think of a way you have shown confidence. Some good ol classics are simply "I'm taking you to XYZ restraunt" not "where do you want to go?" You don't need to do that every single time, but you need to show that you have some confidence in your decision making.

Think of it if you were on the other side of the equation, would you rather be with someone who constantly asked you "where do you want to go?" or someone who was like "I know of a place you've probably never been to, we're going there!" Take control of your relationships.

[BCobe]

Originally Posted by Tom

Exactly.

Honestly you're probably too nice. She doesn't necessarily want to be single but she probably realizes that she can call you to her service whenever she wants so she is going to blow you off until (if ever) that time comes.

There's a reason they say nice guys finish last. IMHO, live your life and allow her the opportunity to join you on your adventures. Younger girls tend to not want a guy who will drop everything in an instance to answer their call. Show her you have a life and she's not you're #1 priority and she may become interested.

You complain about how all of your past GFs have cheated on you, honestly, I think the same applies here. You're likely too easy for them, they get bored knowing you will do what they say when they say, so they look for the challenge... aka the "*******" who tells them no.

Girls always say they like confidence. Think of a way you have shown confidence. Some good ol classics are simply "I'm taking you to XYZ restraunt" not "where do you want to go?" You don't need to do that every single time, but you need to show that you have some confidence in your decision making.

Think of it if you were on the other side of the equation, would you rather be with someone who constantly asked you "where do you want to go?" or someone who was like "I know of a place you've probably never been to, we're going there!" Take control of your relationships.

Read this, the re-read it, the print it out and put copies by your toilet for reading material... IMO this is were its at... I was all up in my ex's ass were I droped everything for her and was all about her... Needless to say she later droped me... Then I became an *******. Now one is stuck on me like glue.