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Old 05-20-2010, 10:56 PM
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I agree with Sport. Sit down and talk "grown up" with your Mom. More friend to friend than son to mother. Try to find out where she's coming from before you go out and p*ss her off.
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Old 05-21-2010, 05:17 AM
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Hide the cash, and try to keep your mom busy. Domestic Violence is no joke, as you already know. My dad used to beat my mom's ass alot. She got much better after they divorced and I was glad for it.

Battered women, for reasons only God knows, tend to go through this crap of how it's all their own fault and blah blah blah. Everyone else knows it's bullshit, but, anyhow... Your mom's gonna need you to be strong for her. Make sure that jack ass goes to the joint, if you can. sounds like that's where he belongs anyhow.

Sorry you gotta go through this dude.

On the other hand, Sport also has a very good point. Get her side, but, she also needs to know how you feel and see things. It's not OK to have to deal with this yourself, you know? And she needs to know you care, and have her back.
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Old 05-21-2010, 05:56 AM
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Your mom gunna be pissed at you...should talk to her




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Old 05-21-2010, 06:42 AM
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Thanks a lot guys for the help. He doesn't hit her or anything. He is afraid to lol. If I found out or his own son found out he'd be dead. His son doesn't even like because of the way he treats everyone
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Old 05-21-2010, 06:56 AM
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I agree that you should definately make the money unavailable to your mother. This guy needs to be in jail and it is the ONLY way to get him out of your life. Like PhunkyMunky said, she'll never get out of it on her own. He is going to have to be forced out and it seems right now you have the power to make it happen.

As far as the money, get it out of the house! Being in your safe is no good because she knows where it is, will tell him, and he'll break in and steal it. Take it to the bank and open a CD with it. She won't know where it is, she won't have access to withdraw it, and it will earn some interest.

And finally, if you catch him committing a crime, CALL THE POLICE. He clearly already has a record and is already up shits creek. Another arrest will probably be a one-way trip.
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Old 05-21-2010, 09:02 AM
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definitely dont give him the money. shit, if my dad was an ******* like tht to my mom, id beat his fuckin ass with a bat
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Old 05-21-2010, 09:15 AM
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I had an ******* of a stepdad too. And now that my mom is away from him, she is HAPPY! I dont know what your relationship with your mom is, but I agree with the rest of the fellas. DO put the money in a savings account instead of holding on to cahs like that. Then sit down with you mom and have heart to heart talk. i know me and my mon could always talk like that. tell her how you feel and that you see what it is doing to her. definitly dont give her the money though. But DO talk to her about it.
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Old 05-21-2010, 11:24 AM
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smart thing: talk with her and hide the money letting him rot away

smarter thing: hookers and blow

smartest thing: take a trip to the bahamas with hookers and blow
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Old 05-21-2010, 02:35 PM
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holy $hit Camodown read my mind!!!
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Old 05-21-2010, 02:36 PM
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smart thing: talk with her and hide the money letting him rot away

smarter thing: hookers and blow

smartest thing: take a trip to the bahamas with hookers and blow
see, i can inspire people with very few words haha
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Old 05-21-2010, 02:38 PM
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I'm gunna go with the smartest thing
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Old 05-21-2010, 02:40 PM
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i wouldnt suggest importing your own blow to the bahamas, you wont enjoy their drug smuggling policies (life in prison on your FIRST offense)
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and then you,Mom, step-dad and hookers can all go on the Jerry Springer Show
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Old 05-21-2010, 05:49 PM
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i wouldnt suggest importing your own blow to the bahamas, you wont enjoy their drug smuggling policies (life in prison on your FIRST offense)
yeah, if he has to then he can always just get some of the chronic on the beach. Or what they like to call it "green stuff"
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Old 05-24-2010, 11:54 AM
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Let us know what happens on June 15th!
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