I called the loacl Ford dealer. They said it is $140 to relash the computer. They need the truck, old ecm and new ecm to reflash it.
Well, I tried the new used ECM to see if I could save myself $140. Truck would not even turn over.
Put the original ecm back in, in preperation to take it to the dealer to have them reflash it. Truck started right up and idled like it is supposed to
Went for about a 5 mile ride and it runs fine.
WTF